Why You Lost Your Girlfriend And How You Can Get Her Back
The feeling of getting dumped sucks.
There is absolutely no doubt about that.
For sometimes, you can go crazy thinking about all the things that went wrong in your relationship.
But the bottom line is, the reason why your relationship ended is because your girlfriend has lost attraction for you.
No, it had nothing to do with you leaving your dirty laundry around the house or that it is her and not you losing touch with what you used to be passionate about.
Rather it is because the foundation of her attraction for you faded probably due to the fact she networked with more people and founded someone she thinks is better than you.
There is nothing you can do to control or dictate what she went through.
But there is everything you can do to reignite your girlfriend and I will get to that in a second.
For now, you need to first understand why she dumped you.
It could be he found someone better or other reasons which you certainly need to find out.
Because only when you do, then you know how to get her back.
This is what I like to call The 3 Deadly Relationship Sins.
Now, I am not saying that you committed all those sins.
But chances of you probably exhibiting at least one of those pretty much forced your girlfriend to leave you even if she claimed that she left you for other reasons.
The first deadly sin is a common problem that most men have in their relationships which is being domineering.
Women tend to get repelled by men that put unrealistic restraints on their lives.
Though taking control of your relationship is important, you need to know it takes your girlfriend as well to make it work.
Otherwise, do not be shocked that your girlfriend left you.
2. Seeking Approval Constantly
The second deadly sin seems weird initially but makes complete sense if you think rationally about it.
Your girlfriend is still your friend.
She is not yet your wife or even your family member.
Unless she himself is domineering, which is another subject, you are not required to seek approval from her before doing anything next.
Because by doing that, you are giving her the impression that you are not confident of yourself and with her around, you can never think and act independently.
If she is the DIY type who prefers self-initiative and you are not, there is a very high probably that she will leave you eventually for someone better.
3. Getting Jealous Easily
The third deadly sin is getting jealous all the time.
Suppose if your girlfriend is a businesswoman who needs or someone who just sees networking with different people as her way of getting businesses and life –
But you are constantly demanding her otherwise because you do not feel comfortable with many people – whether she is talking with men or women, there is a high possibility of her deciding to break up with you.
If while in the process of networking, she accidentally found someone better and more compatible than you.
Having said that, how do you go about reigniting your girlfriend?
Well, it begins with understanding and implementing some of the most powerful psychological techniques.
Even if the odds are stacked against you right now, you can still get her back if you know what you should be doing next.