Why You Lost Your Boyfriend And How You Can Get Him Back?

Posted on 17th February 2020
in Gals, Get Ex Back
by Amy Stewart

The feeling of getting dumped sucks.

There is absolutely no doubt about that.

For sometimes, you can go crazy thinking about all the things that went wrong in your relationship.

But the bottom line is, the reason why your relationship ended is because your boyfriend has lost attraction for you.

No, it had nothing to do with you leaving your dirty laundry around the house or that it is him and not you losing touch with what you used to be passionate about.

Rather it is because the foundation of his attraction for you faded probably due to the fact he networked with more people and founded someone he thinks is better than you.

There is nothing you can do to control or dictate what he went through.

But there is everything you can do to reignite your boyfriend and I will get to that in a second.

For now, you need to first understand why he dumped you.

It could be he found someone better or other reasons which you certainly need to find out.

Because only when you do, then you know how to get him back.

This is what I like to call The 3 Deadly Relationship Sins.

Now, I am not saying that you committed all those sins.

But chances of you probably exhibiting at least one of those pretty much forced your boyfriend to leave you even if he claimed that he left you for other reasons.

1. Domineering

The first deadly sin is a common problem that most women have in their relationships which is being domineering.

Men tend to get repelled by women that put unrealistic restraints on their lives.

Though taking control of your relationship is important, you need to know it takes your boyfriend as well to make it work.

Otherwise, do not be shocked that your boyfriend left you.

2. Seeking Approval Constantly

The second deadly sin seems weird initially but makes complete sense if you think rationally about it.

Your boyfriend is still your friend.

He is not yet your husband or even your family member.

Unless he himself is domineering, which is another subject, you are not required to seek approval from him before doing anything next.

Because by doing that, you are giving him the impression that you are not confident of yourself and with him around, you can never think and act independently.

If he is the DIY type who prefers self-initiative and you are not, there is a very high probably that he will leave you eventually for someone better.

3. Getting Jealous Easily

The third deadly sin is getting jealous all the time.

Suppose if your boyfriend is a businessman who needs or someone who just sees networking with different people as his way of getting businesses and life –

But you are constantly demanding him otherwise because you do not feel comfortable with many people – whether he is talking with men or women, there is a high possibility of him deciding to break up with you.

If while in the process of networking, he accidentally found someone better and more compatible than you.

Having said that, how do you go about reigniting your boyfriend?

Well, it begins with understanding and implementing some of the most powerful psychological techniques.

Even if the odds are stacked against you right now, you can still get him back if you know what you should be doing next.