How To Get A Guy To Notice You?
Do you have problems getting the attention of the guy you want and avoiding who you do not want?
If so, you are not the only girl facing this problem.
For if you understand how men think, you can get him to like you.
To get you started, here are my 3 tips that will help you.
Looks are crucial even if most guys say they do not mind.
But I can tell you they are just being polite to you and do not wish to embarrass you in public.
The best way to solve this problem is to eat healthy and exercise regularly.
If you have to, go hit the gym. jog and swim regularly.
Also you need to be conscious of who you hanged with be it your family or friends.
If they are junk food lovers, simply tell them you want to get and eat healthy.
But if those methods do not work, get yourself a fitness instructor who can help you better.
The second tip is to be more approachable.
If you do not understand, think of the time when you are down and how your friend actually goes out of the way to help you.
Or just give you a listening ear and be your confidant.
Now that is what I mean.
To solve this problem, hang around more with positive people.
Because by doing that, chances are you will become like them gradually and naturally over time.
3. Let Him Share
When it comes to meetings be a group or date for the first time, everyone likes to share about themselves.
Of course when it comes to group, the time for doing so could be limited if there are more than 5 people.
But when it is just you and him, you have all the time to do so.
Still while it is good to share your thoughts and experiences, it is just as important to allow him to do likewise.
Otherwise you will be perceived as domineering and wants to control his life.
4. Minimize Distractions
Life has many distractions.
Phone calls, messages and some random accidents or incidents happening along the way.
While you cannot control when or whether accidents may happen, there is everything you can do to control your iPhone from ringing.
There is a broadcast feature from WhatsApp and if most of your contacts called you regularly, simply broadcasted them a message that you are out on a date or important meeting and will not be available for the next 2 hours or so.
Because sometimes those can disrupt your conversations and date.
Should your date be conscious of time, he will just tell you he has to go, get up and leave.
And you might never contact him again.
5. Be A Listening Ear
As much as you want your partner to listen to you, it is just as important to do likewise.
You may not have a full grasp of what he is saying but at least if you are a listening ear, it shows you are paying attention and going along with what he says.