Are You Pushing Your Man Away?
- Posted on 16th February 2020
- in Articles, Dating, Women
- by Amy Stewart
So you met a man.
Everything started great between you both.
Or so you thought.
Then, quick as lightning, he was out the door.
When it comes to relationships, women and men have unique perspectives.
From first date etiquette to when to sleep with their partner, the outlooks are diverse.
However, when a man pulls away from the woman he is seeing, it is usually for a specific reason.
With that said, here are three huge mistakes women make that push men away.
1. Clingy
If there is one thing that sends any man running, it is a clingy woman.
Sure, it is nice to be affectionate and show him that he is on your mind.
But when you make him your be and end all, chances are he will start to feel smothered.
When this happens, he will do his best to regain his independence by pulling away.
Worse still, when you make it known that you are falling for him too quickly.
Since men are looking for fun at the start of a relationship, letting him know that you are already planning your future together will scare him away.
Instead of showing your emotions too soon, it is crucial that you remain calm, cool and collected.
Remember, if a man senses that a woman wants more from him and the relationship than he is prepared to give, he will pull away.
2. Insecure
Studies have shown that most women are unhappy with their bodies at least once a day.
However, when it comes to relationships showing your insecurities is never a good idea.
Sure, it is nice to be comfortable enough to talk about your gym routine or the healthy eating kick you’re on with your man.
But if you are asking for his opinions on your looks or nagging anytime an attractive woman talks to him, then you are digging your own relationship grave.
The problem is that once your insecurities start to show, there is no going back.
Instead of pushing him away with your self-doubts show him your happy-go-lucky side and he’ll be hooked.
A good tip to follow is to pretend that every date with your man is a first because there is no way you allow him see this side of you then.
Just because you are happy with him, it does not necessarily means he feels the same.
In fact, if he knows that you are using him to achieve your personal agenda, he will likely reprimand you and leave.
