5 Mistakes To Avoid In Getting Your Ex Back
- Posted on 28th March 2011
- in Articles, Gals, Get Ex Back, Guys
- by Amy Stewart
The mistakes people make will be more costly than what they attempt to do in getting back with their ex.
Having said that, here are the 5 mistakes you must avoid totally.
1. Reverting To The Old Times
If you are going to get back together, you are have to start all over.
Returning to where you left off is only setting yourself up for failure.
Make a commitment to change and actually make things different from when the relationship ended.
You have to make a genuine effort to get the relationship back on track.
2. Stop Sweating Over Small Matters
Every relationship has minor issues that you simply have no control over.
Instead of wasting your time stressing over those, you have to let them go.
You may never get back together with your ex if you cannot learn to deal with small matters.
It is up to you to live and learn how to deal with these things on your own.
3. Not Changing
Chances are you were doing something wrong in the relationship that caused the breakup.
Typically someone is not going to break up with you when they were at fault.
For this reason, swallow your pride and make the changes that need to be made.
The relationship will go nowhere if you are not willing to change or are just planning on reverting back to your old self after getting back together.
4. Hound The Ex
If you really want to eliminate the chance of you two getting back together, show aggressiveness and hound the ex.
Being aggressive and showing animosity is only going to strain the relationship even more.
Learn to relax, lighten up and truly take in what your ex has to say.
This will allow the two of you to better understand each other so you can work out an agreement.
5. Moving On
Perhaps the last tip you want to hear when trying to get back together with your ex is to move on.
However, if your ex has showed signs of moving on, you will want to do the same.
If both of you are meant for each other it will happen down the road.
The best thing you can do if they have found a new partner is to bless them and then find someone else yourself.
This will show them you are not obsessed and you can find others as well.
The Magic of Making Up provides you with the tell tale clues your ex leaves behind to remind you they still care.
